easy said than done.

assalamualaikum w.b.t

dear niahanara,

i'm scared of marriage. I really am. 

banyak sangat cerita and tragedies yang I dengar.

 problems in marriage, curang, poligami and else.

most of my friends going through the same thing in their family.

I've seen enough.

is that normal? is it true that men really can love more than one woman at one time?
i've heard too many same stories. husband cheated on their wife.
why can't they stay loyal with one woman?

 woman who truly loves them?
woman who loves them more than anything. 

why can't they? 

lelaki yang kita percaya, tipu and curang.

can you imagine that?

boleh imagine macammana perasaan perempuan tu?

benda ni normal ke?
so maknanya, mana-mana lelaki pun boleh buat?

yes, lelaki boleh poligami. and perempuan tak boleh persoalkan poligami. 

memang ada dalam Islam. sunnah Nabi. 

but do they follow the real sunnah or it's just lust?

kaji balik macammana cara Nabi, kenapa Nabi berpoligami.
kalau bab poligami, laju je cakap sunnah. bab lain? *gelak sinis
sorry to say, i'll walk away kalau that's happen to me.

memang dapat payung kuning kat akhirat nanti.

masyallah.

tak boleh lawan takdir, but i'm not that strong.
nanti lagi banyak dosa bila tak redha. 

I want Jannah.

 I hate it when men makes fun of poligami. bangga boleh kahwin ramai.
kau ingat senang? family kau happy la nanti?

most of the family I know, tak happy.

 kau tanggung la dosa anak bini kau nanti.
seronok kan? kau tak alami, so kau tak paham.

sorang pun susah nak jaga.

easy said than done.

kan lagi better kau berazam nak bimbing wife kau, bimbing untuk dapat syurga.

sama-sama muhasabah diri untuk jadi hamba Allah yang lagi baik :')
perempuan yang baik akan benarkan suami dia kahwin lain, tapi lelaki
yang baik takkan menduakan isteri dia. 

get it? 

in case kalau ada tersalah apa-apa, maaf.

 ilmu agama masih tak cukup

this iz le opinion only.

love,

nurulainfarhana

p/s; orang yang tak pernah alami, memang takkan paham.